Attainment & Problem Cycles

Over the years as a ReUnion facilitator, I have had many clients who wanted something - clients who wanted to get pregnant, who wanted to find a partner, who wanted to have money, etc…

So it might be interesting to look at this word ‘wanting’. It stems from the old english vanta ‘to be lacking’. Thus, wanting is the opposite of having. By wanting something, it is rather like trying to stand up and sit down at the same time - the more you want, by definition the more you lack.

Our natural state, noble self, divine and creating self, is naturally happy and free - wanting makes us unhappy and unfree because we are creating lack.

A typical problem cycle can be seen developing in our life as we want our way through it, a cycle that goes from ‘I don’t have’ to ‘I can’t have’:

1) Problem (’I don’t have’) - 2) My desire to have - 3) My hope for having - 4) My forces kick in as the accumulated programming of the ancestral or other life identities within me react to this hope for having - 5) I use effort to enforce hope over the thrall of these programmings - 6) I do not get what I want and I am disappointed - 7) Now the problem becomes more solid and I feel despair, anxiety, anger, or rejection (= I can’t have)!

We’ve all heard the phrase ‘The rich get richer, the poor get poorer’. A rich person doesn’t want money, he has the knowledge that it is his already, thus he can decide to create more money. On the other hand, a poor person wants money, enters the above problem cycle, thus creating lack and no money. A similar illustration can sometimes be seen for a woman who wants to get pregnant, gives up and adopts, and then gets pregnant - might it be it is because she has taken the want off?

Therefore we need to get out of this paradoxical effort-counter effort problem cycle and hang our hearts on something firmer than the “I must have - I can’t have”

First, we have to differentiate between wishing and deciding … For example, you can wish to go to the movies, but you’ll only do so when you decide to go to the movies.

DESIRING - Desire arises from a decision confronted and wrapped by a screens of inherited or other life forces.

DECIDING - Decision is creation by the true self. It feels like inspiration.

If you want anything at all, you can have it, provide you can let go of the created pressure of wanting it. Decide without desiring, just TRUST - don’t try to figure how, it’s an effortless decision - then let it go and be inspired. Wish it so, drop all concern and go forward with unworried trust.

Problem cycles take up room in our life, away from the present, and thrust us into endless concern about the future based on the disappointments of the past.

But if you’ve ever wanted something, and then forgot about it, and then got it ‘out of the blue’, you will understand what is meant about wishing and then going forward with unworried trust. The key is to stop worrying.

‘Believe, dream, will….and then put it in the hands of God.’ Norman Vincent Peale

By the way, do not use time targets. Attainment is decision then TRUST with no conditions, no control.

If you can envision and love it without wanting it to happen, it can happen. Become free of the hidden agenda of making it happen (the agenda that underlies so many of the affirmation and envisioning programs popular today).

Ultimately, the key to attainment, to your freedom, is recognizing that it is you, held in problem cycles, that is giving power to the creation of your unwanted realities. We must ultimately recognize that it is impossible not to be a creator all the time, and God simply loves you and cooperates with you, whatever state you create. Your life always has been a demonstration of this.

One purpose of ReUnion, then, is to find our freedom as a high self, that creates by vision, decision and trust. ReUnion sessions allow us to understand and master those inherited and otherwise absorbed forces that create by desire, and replace them with the clear light of decision and trust; and thus we become better able to master our circumstances.

Iin ReUnion we go beyond want, we understand that there is a constant flow of creation, a sacred embrace always with us, and that the inventor (God) creates inventors (our high selves) that then create the inventor (God paradigms). What we Surrender to in ReUnion, however, is that which is the source of this whole process, the deep mystery, not an invented paradigm of God.

Even knowing all this, why do we still find ourselves feverishly wanting? Perhaps because our whole culture and background is based on wanting, driven by the corporate mass creation of want, desire and consumption. And this only further creates the stress of the resulting above mentioned problem cycle of wanting. Thus it is that in ReUnion, after seeing the roots of all this within us, we begin to recover our freedom from such want.

This ‘wanting’ is also the key is to understanding why we have created and collected so many ancestral and other life identities that we find speaking in our ReUnion session. It is the basic paradox of existence - that we turn being into wanting to be something

When Buddha tells us that in order to be happy and find inner peace and serenity, we must have no desires; he doesn’t say not to have. What he seemed to be talking about was going beyond the limitations of identity and not needing to be something and trusting our vision

It is well known that the brain ‘lights up’ in reaction to inner or outer circumstances, whether those circumstances are real or imaginary. It can’t tell the difference. So who decides what is real or imaginary? We, our high selves, free of identities, are deciders of what is real!

If we are deciders then there is choice, and if there is choice, there is freedom.

It is only when you know to decide things, versus wanting things, that you can relax or rest in this world. Building an intensity of clear and unworried decision making is an important skill. And just like pushing a swing repeatedly, each time making it go higher, each ReUnion session gradually increases the power and clarity of our high self’s decisions by removing the ‘want’ of past identities.

At the feeling level, this is total trust - it is to love what the situation is now, be inspired (decision)… and loving what the situation becomes from that decision, without urgency or enforcement. Trust in yourself, and in the divine presence that is with you, and your life shall become full and complete.

Nafs

The ‘Nafs’ in the Sufi paradigm refer to a group of ‘everyday’ force signals.

We begin good work when we consciously try and clean ourselves of these ‘Nafs’, particularly in tandem with ReUnion clearing.

Take on an alertness as to when the ‘Nafs’ come up in you, and do your best to dissolve them with forgiveness and love…..

Being proud of one’s spiritual state
Arrogance
Envy
Miserliness
Being vengeful
Denying the giver of gifts or belittling the gifts
Being disatisfied and complaining about one’s state
Ceasing to have hope for God’s Mercy
Being sure of God’s punishment
Condoning tyrrany and helping tyrants
Speaking against decent people
Being hungry for approval and compliments
Fearing criticism
Setting traps for others
Fawning over people for personal benefit
Being happy about disasters that fall upon people
Taking pleasure in people’s suffering
Gossiping
Being a hypocrite
Being a coward
Not keeping one’s word
Believing in bad luck
Leading a life of no responsibility
Making excuses
Not keeping to one’s path due to laziness
Lamenting the loss of things
Not accepting one’s error and continuing to insist on it
Being afraid of poverty
Making oneself depressed
Taking pleasure in belittling others
Being disdainful of the poor
Forgetting about one’s own shortcomings and being preoccupied with the shortcomings of others
Excluding from one’s heart the love of God

The Greatest Virtue

This is an excerpt from an article written by Alexander Green from his blog ‘Spiritual Wealth’ ….

……My message today is about gratitude. More than two thousand years ago, Cicero called it “not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.”

Psychologists say it’s virtually impossible to feel grateful and unhappy at the same time.

Gratitude is usually generated in one of two ways. One, by feeling a genuine appreciation for the life that you were given and, two, by making a conscious decision to practice looking at what’s right in your life rather than focusing on what’s missing……

Of course, if you have nothing more than good health and the love and affection of your family, you have much to be grateful for. But take a moment, too, to marvel at how fortunate you are just to have been born in the modern era.

Your ancestors four generations removed would marvel at contemporary life: Unlimited food at affordable prices… plagues that killed millions - polio, smallpox, measles, rickets - all but eradicated… the end of backbreaking physical toil for most wage earners… the advent of instantaneous global communication and same-day travel to distant cities… mass home ownership with central heat and air and limitless modern conveniences… senior citizens cared for financially and medically, ending the fear of impoverished old age.

Let’s not forget, too, how advances in medical technology and nutrition have created the greatest human accomplishment of all time - the near doubling of the average lifespan over the last hundred years. (At the beginning of the twentieth century, the average American lived just 41 years.)

Please don’t kid yourself that things were really better in “the good old days.” As I once heard an historian remark, “If you really believe life was better a couple hundred years ago, I have just one word for you - dentistry.”

Let’s appreciate, too, the many political freedoms - denied to millions around the world - that we enjoy today: freedom of expression, freedom of assembly, freedom of religion, and freedom from conscription, among others.

Of course, it is nothing less than astonishing that you’re sitting here reading this at all.

In “A Short History of Nearly Everything,” Bill Bryson writes that “you have been extremely - make that miraculously - fortunate in your personal ancestry. Consider the fact that for 3.8 billion years, a period of time older than the Earth’s mountains and rivers and oceans, every one of your forebears on both sides has been attractive enough to find a mate, healthy enough to reproduce, and sufficiently blessed by fate and circumstances to live long enough to do so. Not one of your pertinent ancestors was squashed, devoured, drowned, starved, stranded, stuck fast, untimely wounded, or otherwise deflected from its life’s quest of delivering a tiny charge of genetic material to the right partner at the right moment in order to perpetuate the only possible sequence of hereditary combinations that could result - eventually, astoundingly, and all too briefly - in you.”

Meditate on that for a moment. And recognize that the odds against you being here are astronomically large. Then be grateful…

Gratitude makes you feel like you have enough. Ingratitude leaves us in a state of deprivation in which we are always looking for something else.

Don’t just feel grateful, however. Do something about it. As William Arthur Ward once said, “Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.”

Let your co-workers know, in subtle ways, that you enjoy working with them. Show your friends that you don’t take their companionship for granted. Let your partner know how you really feel.

Who knows? You may be surprised to find out what they think about you. Doing this is a good thing, by the way. Medical studies consistently show that people who express gratitude regularly are happier, healthier and less susceptible to depression.

So find a moment to appreciate your incredible good fortune… and let the people around you know how you feel.

As the Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu wrote over 2,000 years ago:

If you look to others for fulfillment,
you will never truly be fulfilled.
If your happiness depends on money,
you will never be happy with yourself.
Be content with what you have;
rejoice in the way things are.
When you realize there is nothing lacking,
the whole world belongs to you.

Artistry

‘MANIFESTING IS THE POWER OF PASSIONATE, FOCUSED LOVE.”

2008 ReUnion

I count myself fortunate to know each of you, and to have had the privilege of teaching you this work. I feel honored, because while you have been doing this work, you have been moving all of us through the compressing bands of force around this planetary reality.

If you keep dropping drops of clear water onto a polluted pond, eventually the pond will become clear. As an analogy, the pond is this world we live in and the polluted water is all the forces here. Your sessions, no matter on whom or about what, are drops of clear water whose ripples are changing the dynamics of this pond we live in.

You may have noticed there is something in the air, a newness, a turning, a growing, a yearning for change……

Your sessions have awakened the kundalini (change) and the wings (vision) to balance the rigid authority (staff) period we have been going through.

Without vision and without flexibility (openness and flow) people become rigid trees, their roots polluted with fear so they can no longer hold up this rigidity, eventually snapping and falling. You are changing this!

Some of you don’t realize how powerful you are, alone or with other facilitators. It really comes down to self image versus the image the world has of us. But it’s right to remember, in the light of our understanding of forces, that the world is not against us, we are against us.

Everyone out there is yearning.

Each session we do is patiently drawing people towards becoming what they love, rather than being drawn towards becoming what they fear.

The next 4 or 5 years (I believe the Chinese call them ‘interesting times’) are crucial to each us flourishing as growing souls, and crucial to the flourishing of this beautiful planet we find ourselves on and the population we find ourselves among.

So, I hope you can find it in yourselves to ‘keep on truckin’ with the work. You are very valuable.

And I hope this year’s book will make it easier for you….

Very Important: Opening procedure:

To take the express elevator down into the deepest stratum of the forces on hand, the new version of the opening procedure appears to be most effective. In summary:

*Client expresses their ‘wants handled’. Tap in.
*Place their thumb and forefinger in contact with K27 (just under the inner ends of the collar bone) have them find the (their name) inside of them that is experiencing the ‘wants handled’. Tap in.
*Have them place their palms up and meet this (their name) with love and forgiveness. Tap in. Tap up.
*Tl for the ‘wants handled’ location in their field, a chakra or in/on the body. Tap in, place their attention on the ‘wants handled’ location and immediately assess ID Opening: Entry Forms. Tap in.
*With their hand on their heart, have them take big breath. Tap in, and assess their ISelf Recognition level. Have them be that awareness (to weakness). Tap in
*The 3 preliminary modes modes (out of weakness). Tap in.
*Surrender with Seeding source(s) (might be mutual 12, find who - ancestor, other life, other being - seed for both client and Seeding source).
*Follow Entry Form trail (NOTE: if Seeding has a goto, follow its trail - then on end of paragraph return to original Entry Form ).

End of session procedure (when in weakness, with no active hand) -

*Resolving mode, then check -Time, Integrate facilitation, Continue, Ability .*If there is an ability, have them experience it and, while they do, TL for the ability’s Aversion TL.
*Have them send a wave of light at the Aversion TL and wash away whatever is there. Tap in. Then, as a higher self, have them flood their vessel with the ability. Tap in.
Have them take a big breath, and re-experience ISelf Recognition level awareness awareness. Tap in.
Finally, Surrender with the Seeding source(s).

Two quick little process that you may find useful - Exteriorization and Dispersal of Identities - can be found on the last page of the Procedure section of the book. Practice them until they are easy for you.

In Types of sessions - there is a new type called Dialogue sessions. If you can work with another facilitator, this is an excellent opening for inner to inner intimacy between the two of you.

On any of the electromagnetic remedies that uses nervous system contact points on the surface of the body - Qi stimulation (yin or yang), oils, ash crystals, polarizer, energy accumulators, i.e. any remedy that touches the body - after the point has been treated, have the client take big breath (which resets the autonomic nervous system) and let the energy settle .

In every session I have done this year, I have been clarifying and rewriting many of the submodes.

I feel there is a new spirit to the book, one that is warmer and clearer. Perhaps the best way to put it - it’s the same ReUnion process, less the forces in myself that have struggled with its creation. (Believe me, there have been some doozies!)

In this year’s book I have also added Info writeups to keep you oriented. In the beginning there is Basic principles, and then info writeups before each of the following files - Codes, Dimensional attributes, Resonances, Suppression, Alliances. And then Definitions (beta version) is at the end of the book.

Notice that in ISelf Recognition levels 1-4, TimeISelves are mentioned. I have come to realize that time is the ISelf’s foundational assumption (basic postulate) upon which we, at level 4, dream this energy-form reality. Time is, in fact, our ongoing miracle, and each of us exists in all of time.
By understanding this, the form of informal muscle testing used in Time Testing (in the Charts section of the book) can bring more certainty to those questions we all ask ourselves about our lives outside of session.

I am also beginning to understand there are plateaus that allow us to understand that we are in motion and our inner is changing.

It appears that there are specific phenomena more often than not associated with each plateau, and as we strip away forces and move as ISelves up through the ISelf recognition levels, these become increasingly clear.

LEVEL 0 - The initial sessions.
Here the being is trapped and smothered by force arrays, their feeling center packed with fear, their power center packed with anger, their heart packed with pain, their head packed with sorrow, and their spirit packed with trances . They are beings smothered by coercive ancestral, other life, and tribal forces
(PS: Although it’s hard for them, some handle their forces better than other - but it is here, in their first sessions, that you can see their beauty! )
The predominant action at this level is ancestral and other life clearing.

LEVEL 1 - The emphasis of the sessions switches from one as receiver of ancestral forces to a mutual helping of, and being helped by, the ancestors. There is a greater affinity with the ancestors, or with other lives and other beings.

LEVEL 2 - Mother and Father begin becoming the predominant ancestral seedings …. there’s a sense that the two of them, just like when they gave birth to you as a body, are now giving you rebirth as an empowered ISelf.

LEVEL 3 - Now the ancestors start acting act as mediators between oneself and the beings the ancestors or other lives interacted with in their lifetime.
At this level, abilities begin to strengthen inwardly and outwardly.
At some point on this level, there is an often funny, loving realization that one is an ISelf pretending to be a human.

LEVEL 4 - seems to be about Mutuals. Seeding 12 appears frequently. One begins to realize that one exists in all of time. There are frequent bouts of unreasonable happiness.

There are perhaps 8 more plateaus before one ‘disappears’ as an existence and becomes existence ….

Regarding abilities, remember they are ‘incremental’ i.e. they start at the bottom and grow. You can’t expect a level zero person to have one session and then boom! he’s or she’s got the ability in full flower. The ability is that person’s potential as a higher self in interaction with the material universe. And as one moves up the levels, so do these abilities grow stronger, more actual.

As a project, I would encourage you to do more remotes. It’s great fun, especially with people you’ve never met. With each session they become clearer and clearer without any prejudged social mask in the way, and this is a refreshing to the heart.

Use your growing abilities and scan out a bit in this way.

By the way, there are two signals that indicate you are NOT to do a session

If 1) Permission mode does not go in;
and 2) If you realize you are Surrendering with an agenda, i.e. any sort of intention you may have about the client. These agendas, even though well meaning, tend to interfere with the inner’s self directed clarity. So try and work with no agenda except love, and just see them as they are.
As facilitators, you are seers.

Surrender is the engine of this, a work that becomes your art. There’s a lot of water to cross, but if you open your heart, ReUnion can be your tall ship. This little blue book will carry you through both storms and windless days to amazing new lands, new understandings, and new states.

Best of all, your heart is the pilot. And one thing I know about all of you - you have good hearts!

So keep working with love, in love, by love, for love, as love. As your heart turns on and sends out its light, other hearts will light up around you and send you their light in return.

We are on the same path. And we are all reaching out in the dark, and finding….each other.

Thank you for your faith in me. Enjoy your new book!

Becoming

There are two motions we can make as a being - moving towards something or someone (Love), or moving away from something or someone (Fear). All our emotions are in essence differing degrees or shades of one of these two motions within us.

At this level and to differing degrees, what we love is making our reality, and what we fear is also making our reality.

Our tendency in this life is to be put in motion towards, and then become, the target of whichever one of these two motions is stronger within us.

For example, we might say to ourselves either a) ‘I would love to marry George’, and b) ‘I fear George marrying somebody else.’

In this case, whichever is the stronger, the love motion a) or the fear motion b), will be the direction towards which our reality would tend to manifest. If in this case the love motion ‘I would love to marry George’ is stronger, George will marry us; and if the fear motion “i fear George marrying somebody else’ is stronger, George will not marry us.

Another example may be a) ‘I will get the job’, and b) ‘I will never get the job.’ If the ‘never get’ motion is stronger than the ‘will get’ motion, we will become the ‘never get’ motion and not get the job, but if the ‘will get’ motion is stronger, the job will seem land in our laps.

Other examples could include the fear of failure being stronger than the love of success, which would mean one becoming a failure.

Or the fear of not being loved being stronger than the love of loving, which fairly describes the state of much of humanity at this moment.

These motions within us can also play out as our tendency towards overwhelming others with what has been used to overwhelm us in the past (we become what makes us afraid), or our tendency to love others as we have been loved in the past.

By gradually releasing the fear motion in ourselves through the ReUnion Process, what we love is eventually what we will become.

Fun stuff this!

Beauty

This closing monologue of the film ‘American Beauty’ is, to my mind, a lovely and truly expressive appeal to all of us to find the beauty that is our lives in this physical universe……

“I’d always thought that your entire life flashes in front of your eyes the second before you die.

First of all, that one second isn’t a second at all - it stretches on forever, like an ocean of time.

For me, it was lying on my back at by scout camp and watching falling stars. And yellow leaves from the maple trees that lined our street. Or my grandmother’s hands and the way her skin seemed like paper. And the first time I saw my cousin Tony’s brand new Firebird.

I guess I could be pretty pissed off about what happened to me - but it’s hard to stay mad when there’s so much beauty in the world.

Sometimes I feel like I’m seeing it all at once, and it’s too much. My heart fills up like a balloon that’s about to burst.

And then I remember to relax and stop trying to hold onto it - and then it flows through me like rain.

And I cannot feel anything but gratitude for every single moment of my stupid little life.

You have no idea what I’m talking about, I’m sure. But don’t worry, you will someday.”

Keeping the fun in….

A Hopi Prayer

 

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there,
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight
On the ripened grain.
I am the gentle Autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there.
I did not die.
My Spirit is still alive…

My Lucky Rock

I said to a squirrel, “What is that you are carrying?”

and he said,

“It is my lucky rock; isn’t it pretty?”

I held it and said, “Indeed.”

I said to God,

What is this earth?”

And He said, “It is my lucky rock;

isn’t it wondrous?”

Yes, indeed.

- Tukaram (c.1608 - 1649). Translated by Daniel Ladinsky.